I remember, back when I was growing up, hearing this phrase a hundred times a day. Why? Probably because Mom knew what the answer would be. Unfortunately, our house was not very large (think: 7 people, 1 bathroom) and before I could even say “Dad” I got my answer.
After years of this torture children are exposed to, I am talking about the word No, I decided it was time to make my own money. Fortunately for me, there were plenty of lawns to mow and driveways to shovel within walking distance.
As my lawn and snow business started to grow, however, I never forgot about the customers who took a chance and hired me. Granted, the fee they paid was a bit less than what I was now receiving but they did provide a reference and testimonial. Also, granted it was my parents, and their going fee was fifty cents and food on the table.
Seth Godin’s blog today inspired this post. Read it here. He wrote about how now is not the time to ask for money. And I could not agree more. Now is the time to write your own book, ticket, or whatever you want to call it.
Growing up in a house of 7 with a stay at home mother, there was not much extra money floating around. Though we learned not to ask (we still did), we did learn how to be creative when it came to selling and collecting.
What am I trying to say? A couple lessons.
First. Do not forget who got you started. If you have not talked to them in over 2 weeks, stop reading and pick up the phone. There are many people who got you started, from parents or guardians to former mentors and bosses to first ever clients.
Second. You write your own book. Period. If you need a more satisfying career, go find one. If you need more money, go sell more. I have a friend who sells water and wastewater engineering services to municipalities and works about 45 hours each week and complains about needing to sell more. The first words out of my mouth were to the effect of, why are you at home at 7pm then?
Use this time to figure out who you are and what you want. Then go do it. But remember, never forget who got you started.